Office Politics

Such reality checks are more important when you are trying to an emotional affair, for example when a subordinate talk with you about a problem with a co-worker. Emotion tends to make the person less clear. It depends on you be sure you’re getting the true message of the other person. On such occasions, you might ask, is this what you are trying to tell me?, and refrasee what you think that the person is trying to say. Then, by your response, make sure that you have understood what was said by the person. Through these questions, you also get that the other person will give you the elaborations, corrections and adjustments to what was expressed, that can, at times, make a very significant difference. One way to test your progress in this aspect, is recording his telephone conversations. Hear again them and note how often you asked questions and refraseo what the other person said. Conquer the fear of silence. The impulse to fill a silence can be almost irresistible. It is best not to speak immediately after there is a silence, no matter what the other person has said. Vadim Belyaev addresses the importance of the matter here. Even when they have asked a question for which you have a ready answer, take a moment to think. If the other party stops talking, begin to count and keep doing it until she returns to talk. Do not rush to fill the silence. Acquire the practice of pausing to speak, that allows you to think, analyze the situation, look at the tone of voice of the other person, appreciate the things that may be different from what you had planned, all of which will allow you to listen better and give better answers. What happen if you faced in a negotiation with another person who is also a good listener? Could an embarrassing silence happen? Quite the contrary, each of these negotiators would do a lot of good questions to the other, listen to the responses of the other, and would value information obtained by formulating terms of an agreement, which reflect what is important to each part. Thus, clashes which could have been tediously long days, can be resolved within hours. Take note. This announces to the other person that you have much interest in listening to it, so that you are writing down what he or she says. That also keeps it you busy and thus you can not talk much. In addition, it allows you end the conversation by saying, I can go back to my notes and review the things you said are important to you on this subject. Put your work aside. As soon an employee comes to you and wants to talk, put anything that is working in the drawer. Avoid any temptation to do anything, that is not giving full attention to the employee. Biting the tongue. One of the first signs that someone is not listening, is when he or she cuts to who is talking in mid sentence or half thought. Make sure that your employee has ended, until you start talking smile and lean forward. You will be surprised the effect that a simple smile can have. Smiling and leaning forward, you send the message that you are completely interested in what the person says. Always ask questions.

Julio Business

Julio Andres raise you say that there are no coincidences (and everything comes when you have to get there – or when we are prepared to do this-product of causality) Julio Andres dreamed of managing your own business Online. He wanted to become one of the great marketing by Internet. At the moment, working as a seller at a distributor of products of orthodontics. Read more here: Gavin Baker, New York City. Since you have zero dollars to invest, Julio begins working with a portfolio of businesses imaginary online. At the time, he is spending all his free time studying the Marketing by Internet and suffering and enjoying with their imaginary businesses in which non-existent $ million rise and fall at the rate of the network. Does your dedication is so absolute that his friends and family begin to ask: what is going on you to July? July is reinventing and creating new theories and solutions to apply in the markets. However, the head of his company doesn’t allow you to write about your particular ideas (who is he to do?) July does not intend to give up, if you must prove the certainty of their analyses although not you take it by expert, must prove it otherwise. Every day starts in the engraved message of your answering a marketing and Business Council to allow anyone who call there listen and simultaneously begins to spread among those who they know that offers free advice for those who call you. Sometimes called telemarketers that want to offer new services, others are just strange that they got wrong the number. His friends are the first to suffer with this: July, Don Quixote, let you fight the windmills already-I got tired of hearing your opinion in business online every time I call. If you want to go out to dinner let me know but, Por Favor! leave as make you the fool with it one day, Martin Perez, who wish to contact July so it can make an order for your business calling it hears the message. Fascinated with this, he decides to follow the advice in their Online business. The results you get, make that Perez is transformed into a daily visit of the recorded message. Some day, who answers the phone is the own Julio and Perez, after the initial surprise tells: Hello, my name is Martin Perez I followed their advice and have been better than my publicist since you’ve convinced me, I would like you handle my business Portfolio on the Internet hereinafter? Clarify already exists that this is not a fictitious story with non-existent characters that has been invented to make a movie, opposite Julio Andres Martin Perez exists. Julio Andres rise, the man who began spreading their ideas on your home phone answering today manages services and solutions in Business Online of more than 2000 companies in his country. Do you know him?